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5 Secrets Behind the Magic of the Big Fat Indian Wedding: A Peek into My World

Hey there! I’m Vikramjeet Sharma, the heart and soul behind Le Florence Weddings, and let me tell you, there’s nothing quite like the magic and excitement of planning a Big Fat Indian Wedding.

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The Magic Behind the Big Fat Indian Wedding -Credit- Le Florence Weddings 

From the moment I meet a couple, I’m whisked away on a journey that’s as much about their love story as it is about creating an unforgettable celebration. Let me take you behind the scenes of what goes into making these weddings the grand, magical affairs they are.

Unveiling the Vision

It all begins with a story. I spend time getting to know the couple and their families, diving deep into their backgrounds, their dreams, and the unique vision they have for their special day. It’s like piecing together a puzzle, where every element—from the location to the tiniest details of décor—fits into a bigger picture that reflects their personalities.

When I say these weddings are grand, I mean it! Many of my clients are globetrotters, bringing a dash of international flair to their celebrations.

Imagine a wedding where the décor is inspired by Parisian elegance, with a touch of Moroccan mystique, or where the entertainment includes dancers from Africa, Europe, and even artists flown in from South America. Themes like Moulin Rouge, black-and-white galas, or even a whimsical fairy tale setting are just the tip of the iceberg.

Crafting Unique Experiences

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The Magic Behind the Wedding – Credit- Le Florence Weddings 

Every wedding I plan is a fresh canvas. One couple might want to step into a Cinderella-like fairyland, while another might draw inspiration from the spiritual serenity of the Kasar Devi Temple in Himachal Pradesh. Yes, you heard that right—I’ve planned weddings that range from a magical forest filled with fairy lights to a deeply spiritual ceremony centred around a temple.

The planning for these grand Indian weddings usually kicks off about a year in advance, and believe me, it’s worth every moment. Setting up the venue can take days—sometimes weeks—but it’s all part of the process. And then there’s the food. Oh, the food! In India, food is the soul of any celebration, and for a Big Fat Indian Wedding, we pull out all the stops.

The best caterers, Michelin-star chefs, and an array of global cuisines come together to create a culinary experience that guests will talk about for years.

The Sustainability Challenge

One thing that’s become increasingly important is sustainability. Many couples today want a wedding that’s not just grand but also eco-friendly.

This brings its own challenges, especially when you’re trying to balance the luxury of a Big Fat Indian Wedding with the principles of sustainability. But hey, that’s what makes this job so thrilling! It’s all about finding creative solutions honouring both the couple’s vision and the planet.

Choosing the Perfect Location

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The Magic Behind the Wedding – Credit- Le Florence Weddings 

Location is everything. Whether it’s the regal charm of Rajasthan, the serene beaches of Goa, or the spiritual depth of a temple in Uttarakhand, the venue plays a crucial role in setting the tone for the wedding.

And let’s not forget about international destinations like Thailand or Italy, which offer a perfect blend of stunning backdrops and rich cultural experiences.

Bringing It All Together

When everything finally comes together—the décor, the food, the entertainment, the laughter, the love—it’s pure magic. Each wedding is a symphony, with every detail harmonizing to create a day that’s not just beautiful, but unforgettable.

A Passion for Perfection

So, what keeps me going? It’s the joy on a couple’s face when they see their dream wedding come to life. It’s the thrill of creating something unique every single time. And most importantly, it’s knowing that I’m not just planning a wedding—I’m helping to craft memories that will last a lifetime.

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The Magic Behind the Wedding – Credit- Le Florence Weddings 

That’s the behind-the-scenes magic of a Big Fat Indian Wedding. And I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Must haves in Big Fat Indian Weddings

While weddings are grand celebrations of traditions, emotions, and celebrations – there are some seriously stunning details. Let me take you through some of the Indian wedding traditions and essentials that make these weddings truly unforgettable.

Bridal Wear
Let’s start with the star of the show—bridal wear. When it comes to weddings, the bridal attire is a statement of tradition and personal style. From the timeless red lehenga that every girl dreams of to elegant sarees draped in luxurious Kanjeevaram silk, the options are endless. And let’s not forget the modern brides who are rocking fusion gowns that blend Indian embroidery with Western silhouettes. Every piece of bridal wear I help select is about more than just looking stunning; it’s about showcasing the bride’s unique story and the rich cultural heritage she brings with her.

Wedding Jewellery
Ah, wedding jewellery—the sparkle that completes the bride’s look. In India, jewellery isn’t just an accessory; it’s a legacy passed down through generations. Whether it’s the intricate kundan sets from Rajasthan, the goddess-inspired temple jewellery from the South, or the elegant diamond pieces, each type of jewellery adds a unique touch. And the best part? Every piece, from the mangalsutra to the nose ring, carries a deep cultural significance, making the bride’s ensemble even more special.

Bridal Makeup & Hair
When it comes to bridal makeup and hair, it’s all about striking the perfect balance between tradition and personal flair. Some brides opt for the classic look with bold red lips and kohl-lined eyes, while others prefer a more modern, subtle approach with nude tones. Hairstyles range from traditional braided buns adorned with jasmine flowers to sleek, sophisticated updos. My job is to ensure that the bride feels like the most beautiful version of herself, whether she’s channeling a timeless look or something a bit more contemporary.

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The Magic Behind the Wedding – Credit- Le Florence Weddings 

Wedding Decor
Now, let’s talk decor—the element that sets the entire mood of the wedding. Indian weddings are known for their opulent decor, from grand floral mandaps to intricate table settings. But what I love most is how versatile the decor can be. Whether the couple wants a royal Rajasthan theme, a boho-chic vibe, or a mix of modern and traditional elements, the possibilities are endless. Each setup is a reflection of the couple’s personality and the story they want to tell on their big day.

Weddings Wedding Photography
Capturing the magic of a wedding is no small feat, and that’s where wedding photography comes in. Traditional photography focuses on those timeless posed portraits and rituals, while candid photography captures the spontaneous, emotional moments that often become the most cherished memories. And for those who want to go all out, cinematic videography can turn the entire wedding into a beautifully crafted film, complete with drone shots and slow-motion sequences. It’s all about preserving the day in a way that reflects the couple’s unique journey.

Groom Wear
Let’s not forget the groom! Groomwear in India is just as detailed and diverse as the bride’s attire. From the classic sherwani with a regal turban to the more contemporary bandhgalas and jodhpuri suits, there’s something for every style. And for the modern groom who wants to blend tradition with a touch of Western influence, there’s always the option of a tailored tuxedo with Indian embroidery. The key is to ensure that the groom’s outfit complements the bride’s look while reflecting his personality.

Invitations and Gifts
Wedding invitations and gifts are the first glimpse guests get of what’s to come. Traditional invites might feature intricate designs with cultural motifs, while modern couples often opt for digital RSVPs or even personalized video messages. As for gifts, they range from luxurious hampers filled with gourmet treats to customized keepsakes that guests can treasure long after the celebration ends. It’s all about setting the tone for the wedding and making sure guests feel special.

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The Magic Behind the Wedding – Credit- Le Florence Weddings 

Wedding Accessories
Accessories are the finishing touches that bring the entire wedding ensemble together. For brides, this could mean a statement maang tikka, a set of bangles, or even a kamarbandh. Grooms might choose a stylish brooch, a pocket square, or a pair of priceless cufflinks that add a personal touch to their outfit. These accessories aren’t just about adding bling—they’re about completing a look that’s uniquely the couple’s own.

Mehendi Setups and Designs
Finally, there’s the mehendi ceremony, a celebration in its own right. The setup can range from traditional, with low seating and marigold garlands, to modern, with lounge-style seating and vibrant, eclectic decor. Mehendi designs are just as varied, from intricate, classic patterns to more modern, minimalist styles. Each setup and design is chosen to reflect the bride’s personality and the overall theme of the wedding, making it a joyous occasion that everyone looks forward to.

Planning a Big Fat Indian Wedding is a journey filled with creativity, tradition, and a lot of heart. Every detail, from the bridal wear to the mehendi designs, is a piece of the puzzle that comes together to create a day that’s not just beautiful, but truly magical. And as a wedding specialist, there’s nothing more rewarding than seeing that magic come to life.

About the Author

Vikram Florence
Vikramjeet Sharma, Founder & Director, Le Florence Weddings

Vikramjeet Sharma, Founder & Director, Le Florence Weddings is a dynamic and passionate individual who believes in living life to the fullest. With a creative entrepreneurial spirit, he founded Le Florence Weddings, a globally recognized wedding planning company. Vikramjeet’s leadership and commitment to creative freedom have propelled Le Florence to international success, with exciting plans for further expansion in the near future.

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